LOVE OR OBSESSION

 IS IT LOVE OR OBSSESSION - TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS 

Love is the most beautiful feeling in the world as most people describe. Some individuals explain love to be a special kind of uncontrollable affection towards someone. It takes courage and commitment to be in a relationship with the person you love. Remember that not everyone is in a relationship with the person they love. 

 

Campus is known for love Growth, love couple goals, love circles to love triangles but it all depends in individuals.  Campus relationship can be life changing.  Some couples end up 

Majority of Relationship have Challenges in Campus, men see alot of other beautiful women in the Campus while women are lured in to relationship byy older men who are wealthy.  As much as love is concerned some individuals get obsessed  with their patners and  sometimes it ends up in Crimes of Passion. 

FACTORS CONTRIBUTING TO LOVE CRIMES 

1. Love Triangles 

When there is more than more person loving your lover . This makes a love triangles which rise the  number of love crimes in Kenya in the Learning Institutions. Sometimes the lover ends up murdering the third party which is an obstacle  in their love path. 

2. Controlling partners  

One may or may not know the perso8n they are saying Yes to might end up controlling them. Having Freedom is a Beautiful thing until your patner decides to make orders and control every move you make. It might be inform of asking for permission from them or they get angry when you don't let them decide for you. Some people end up commiting murder and suicide when they feel suffocated by their patner. 

               Controlling Patner 

3. OBSSESSION 

Obsession grows slowly as one becomes devoted to someone they love or hate. Its when one keeps thinking about someone  and find it difficult to think about anything else. An obsessed person might be  aggressive or have  horrific thoughts about losing control and harming themselves or others and something they are into. Jealousy is also a driving factor . 

An Obsessed Girlfriend Spying on the Boyfriend. 

Signs and Symptoms of an Obsessed Lover 

1. Overwhelmed with emotions about a person that it disrupts your daily schedules. 

2.Feelings of low self-esteem, especially when it seems like your love isn’t being reciprocated. 

3. Feeling extremely possessive and want to plan and controlling their activities.    

It is good to experience love and having a patner that cares for you. In a safe way and feeling secured with the Patner you are with. 

It is advisable to get know what kind of your Patner is.  

 

Campus relationships can be toxic such that one is in a relationship with more than one person and doesn't let go of their Boyfriend or Girlfriend nor do they want them to move on with their lives. 

There has been tales circulating on kind of lovers that make their patners devoted to them and worship them because of making their patners drug addicts. The relationship becomes toxic , it is no longer on interests for the love but love for the drug supplier who is the lover. 

Such kind of Relationships have been  been the factor to what most university consider mapenzi ya kishada as it all involves on drugs. And it mostly leads to death by one or both couples as drugs really deteriotes one's mental health.  

What kind of a Relationship have you been through? 

 Is it Love Or Obsession?